一、
找一个不仅为拥有你而感到骄傲，而且愿意冒一切风险只为和你在一起的人。
Go for someone who is not only proud to have you but will also take every risk just to be with you.
二、
永远不能用语言表达。它只能通过行动表现出来，并在心里感受到。
Love can never to be spoken through words. It can only be shown through actions and felt in the heart.
三、
不管是谁的错，不管发生了什么，除非你对自己的生活负责，否则你不会成功。克服它，忙着修复你的生活，专注于你能控制的事情。
No success until you accept responsibility for your life, for whatever happened no matter whose fault. Get over it, get busy fixing your life and focus on what you can control.
四、
不要害怕改变，不要害怕一成不变。不要害怕与众不同不要害怕别人的评判，害怕做不了自己！
Don’t fear change, Fear staying the same. Don’t fear to be different, Fear to be the same as everyone else Don’t fear the judgement of others, Fear that you won’t be yourself!
五、
放下心中的苦毒。不过等待道歉不是弱点。是力量。对自己好。重新体验他们造成的伤害和怨恨不会对他们产生任何影响。你是唯一一个继续受苦的人。别再让他们接近你了。
Let go of bitterness from your heart. Not waiting for apology isn't a weakness. It's strength. & kindness to yourself. Reliving hurt they caused and being resentful won't impact them in any way. You're the only one who'll continue to suffer. Don't allow them access to you anymore.
六、
你们中的一些人并没有意识到自己是多么的了不起。你让人们发笑的方式，提升他人，或者传播一些额外的爱。你这样做了，即使你也在挣扎。我觉得这能让你成为一个如此美丽的人。
Some of you are unaware of just how amazing you really are. The way you make people laugh, lift others up, or spread some extra love. You do this even though you are struggling too and I think it makes you such a beautiful human being.
七、
人生苦短。所以，打破你愚蠢的自我，迅速地原谅，慢慢地相信，真正地爱，大声地笑，在平凡的时刻寻找快乐，永远不要逃避任何让你微笑的事情。
Life is very short. So break your silly egos, forgive quickly, believe slowly, love truly, laugh loudly, find joy in ordinary moments and never avoid anything that makes you smile.
八、
如果你不善于爱自己，你将很难爱任何人。你会怨恨你和另一个人分享的时间和精力，你甚至没有给自己。
If you aren't good at loving yourself, you will have a difficult time loving anyone. You will resent the time and energy you share
九、
关上一些门，不是因为骄傲、无能或傲慢，只是因为它们不再通向某处。
Close some doors not because of pride, incapacity or arrogance but simply because they no longer lead somewhere.
